Mentors, much like lanterns, can “illuminate dark and uncertain paths, calm and still doubts and fears with encouraging words, wise lessons, gentle touches, firm nudges and faithful actions.” These words of Marian Wright Edelman help us to become aware of our gifts as parents. We are mentors to our children and may be mentors to […]
Build self-esteem in your children… •Kids who feel good about themselves are much less likely than other kids to turn to illegal substances to get high and/or to engage in risky behaviors. •As parents, we can do many things to enhance our children’s self-image. Here are some pointers: –Offer lots of praise for any job […]
Discuss definitions of sexual behaviors, puberty, physical changes, oral sex. •Help your child to be responsible so they can make a decision. •Help them understand what their feelings about sex are. •Are they ready for sex and how do they know what that means or feels like? •Help them make up their own mind about […]
Encourage choice •Allow your child plenty of opportunity to become a confident decision-maker. An 8-year-old is capable of deciding if she wants to invite lots of friends to her birthday party or just a close pal or two. A 12-year-old can choose whether she wants to go out for chorus or join the school band. […]
Tip #10- Take a deep breath. You will get through this tough economic time. It may take dipping into your reserves of energy, inventiveness, and stick-to-it-iveness, but it can be done!
Tip #9- Older children can understand what a downturn in the economy is. They do not need to feel that parents are in a panic, but they can learn that like life itself, there are ups and downs. Commentary by Margaret Murchan, LCSW
Tip #8- Adolescents can benefit from the direct approach. Parents can show them the family budget and, in a positive way, educate them about the changes. Teens can help out if they are able to with small jobs in the neighborhood or helping out at home with younger brothers and sisters. Commentary by Margaret Murchan, […]
Tip #7- No matter the age of your child, they can know how money works. Even younger children can learn to save money and can understand that when there is not much money to spend, it is a great idea to re-use and re-cycle. Commentary by Margaret Murchan, LCSW
Tip #6- Children do pick up on unspoken behavior and tension in the house. Be careful what you say to other adults or spouses. “Little pitchers have big ears” is a saying that is as true as ever in this economically stressful environment. Commentary by Margaret Murchan, LCSW
Tip #5- Parents – take care of yourself as well as your children. If you are fearful and beginning to see signs of panic, get help for yourself and your children will be the beneficiaries. Commentary by Margaret Murchan, LCSW
